​The Darker Side of Truth 

Honesty is the best policy they say, I think it’s true, what I doubt is that it brings peace to minds of those who think the truth is bright and beautiful.  The truth hurts they say, see…now we are getting somewhere. The truth has a bad habit of hitting your guts with the reality of […]

Flirting with my past 

A few weeks ago, we buried my cousin💔💣, as I grew up knowing her to be ( you know black people, everyone is your cousin especially if you’re around the same age). It’s strange how the kind of interactions you had with someone who has passed , really forces you to think about your own […]

Noxolo Moni ❤

Early days of what made Busi ” cool ” Noxolo was a part of it, i dont think i know anyone else who had the same taste in boyfriends than i did( as teens  ) 😋. When i look at my friends, my cousins, as i grew up knowing them to be  , i had […]

I want to love, like…

I want to love like, for real, love like thats all that exists, love like thats all I can give.  I don’t want to love like obsession, or possession but love like I am the reason you become a sucess. I want to love to encourage you to love yourself more than I can love […]

Its okay

​Seth: “It is self-defeating, therefore, to blame yourself for mistakes, so-called, simply because in the light of your present development they are seen as less developed acts than those to which you now aspire. Whenever you catch yourself disapproving of yourself for past mistakes, read  these passages. Do not check on yourself all the time. […]

Racism is a defense mechanism 

Dear readers, I am a South African female, you know, the country known for humanism which is the legacy left by Nelson Mandela and his fellow comrades during the apartheid era. I see color, my brain reactive brain sorts out differences and makes sense of things by grouping them, but when it comes to human […]

Conscious Love:Addiction 

Amazing girl, the one that will love you unconditionally, one that finds your problems so interesting ,like a science project she’ll always aim to Ace, no matter how long it takes.  The one you treat like a doormate until you walk away and actually realize she had your best interests at heart, and come back […]